I Forgive You

I Forgive You

Back in September I taught a Marriage Masterclass on forgiveness and so many couples wrote to me with comments and questions. I understand that the concept of forgiveness can be difficult for you, especially if you have been hurt by your spouse, but remember what I...

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Relationships & Your Body Language

Relationships & Your Body Language

The other day I asked my husband what should I write about to help couples. He looked at me and said, “Men need to understand women’s body language. Ya’ll change too much.” His statement made me laugh because early on in our marriage he used to say he needed a...

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Say ‘Yes’ to Undressing

Say ‘Yes’ to Undressing

Ladies, we all know that peeping toms (you know the ones that go around sneaking to look at women undress) are weird, right? Of course they are; they’re perverts! How about we rebrand peeping toms into something sexy and positive. Occasionally, I invite my husband...

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Forgiveness

Forgiveness

One of the toughest things for me to do is provide counseling to a couple where one spouse needs to forgive the other. It is so hard to get the hurt spouse to understand how powerful forgiveness is and how it can break the emotional shackles in the relationship. There...

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The Sinkhole Syndrome

The Sinkhole Syndrome

A long time ago in my marriage I felt like the thrill had been zapped out of my marriage and I was stressed over several things in my life (work, money, kids, family, and relationships). If you and your spouse are feeling more like roommates than lovers or stressed...

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